Meat N Potatoes and Lobster

His:
Had a rough day at the job. Everyone was cranky. (that was cleaned up!) Had to remind my crew that we are the service department not the complaint department!! Listened to the men talk about their gals at home. They all said the same thing. They want meat and potatoes a couple of times a week and lobster once a week. (you realize they aren't talking about food here...) I thought about it. Why is it that its so easy to connect in the beginning, but then later it seems to get put on the back burner? It's not like the guys don't try anymore, but lots of times they think the gals seem to be distracted, too busy, or maybe bored?



Hers:
It was a crazy day around here. The kids were fighting. (major aggravation) Once they settled their disputes things calmed down for a while. I was able to get in some work (thank God) and even a couple of loads of wash. Can't understand what happened to the fridge... I just shopped a couple of days ago and there's NOTHING to eat. Ran to the store for some dinner. Got back just in time for round two. By the time the kids settled down Hubs was home. He had a crappy day, I could see it in his face as he got out of the car. He cracked a smile at me and said, "So how was your day?" I thought about telling him, but didn't think he really wanted to hear. "Fine." (freaked out, insecure, neurotic and emotional!) That really said it all. He fell asleep during the news and went to bed early. Oh well. More laundry ahead!



Talk:
Many times partners find little time left for each other with all the responsibilities of work, family, kids and chores. It can take a toll on the relationship. Planning ahead for date nights, taking time out to take a walk together after supper, relaxing alone for an evening... these small efforts pay big dividends keeping partners in touch emotionally despite hectic schedules.



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